6/6 Hindsight

“In hindsight, everything is clearer” – everyone

I’m almost a dad for a decade now. Not a feat to be overly proud of.

Being the new age father that I think/feel that I am, splitting myself by 3 is an uphill task. Day by day the needs from our kids are slowly growing as the 3 of them grow up.

Sometimes the missus and I would wonder (like Marvel’s What If…?) what would it be like if we didn’t had 3 of them or just stopped at 1?

Pondering if I’d be spending a lot of time at the beach if I were not a dad.

Yes we would be financially significantly “free-er”. likely drive a heavily modified coupe and living in a small condominium. And do all the things I could’ve / wanted to do.

However in my opinion, I will miss having the joys (even though not 24/7) the kids bring.

Screw the hindsight.

The future is uncertain. But what is certain is now. Cherish it!

Published by ZED

Generation xennial dad trying to bring up 3 girls in this current messy world and keeping sane at the same time.

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