“In hindsight, everything is clearer” – everyone
I’m almost a dad for a decade now. Not a feat to be overly proud of.
Being the new age father that I think/feel that I am, splitting myself by 3 is an uphill task. Day by day the needs from our kids are slowly growing as the 3 of them grow up.
Sometimes the missus and I would wonder (like Marvel’s What If…?) what would it be like if we didn’t had 3 of them or just stopped at 1?
Yes we would be financially significantly “free-er”. likely drive a heavily modified coupe and living in a small condominium. And do all the things I could’ve / wanted to do.
However in my opinion, I will miss having the joys (even though not 24/7) the kids bring.
Screw the hindsight.
The future is uncertain. But what is certain is now. Cherish it!